I wish he would just let it go. But I have now set up a quarantine folder for his messages, and will filter them all THERE instead of to my trash folder from now on, to prevent more unpleasant surprises like this one (and also to save evidence, just in case).

Anyway, other than that incident, my day was lovely. I caught up on sleep, generally unwound, and got some nice gifts and cards/messages/calls. :)