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1. I had a uterine fibroid embolization on June 4. This is a minor surgery that basically murders a fibroid by cutting off its blood supply. I had to stay in the hospital overnight for observation, since blood clots can be Bad News and this procedure essentially creates an artificial clot -- they needed to make sure it didn't hare off and cause problems.

My sleep was very disrupted for about a week thereafter, and I had some minor side effects as well as discomfort, but I am now pretty much back to normal. It will take a month or two to see if the slow withering of the fibroid fixes some problems I was having.

2. Friday the 20th will be my last day at the rental company. I am trying to get a certain set of tasks complete before I leave, but Lawyer Man keeps yanking me aside to work on stuff related to our imminent website revamp, which is frustrating. I am 90% sure I will not be able to finish everything I want to wrap up, but such is life.

3. I have two U-Haul U-Boxes set to be delivered to my driveway on Monday the 23rd. My parents will arrive later that day, and the goal is to have the boxes packed and collected by midday on the 26th, and for us to hit the road no later than mid-afternoon on the 27th.

Then I get to crash in their guest room and go AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaa for a bit.

4. In July Mom and I will return to Ithaca for my surgery follow-up appointment, and probably also to close my Ithaca bank accounts. Later in July I am road-tripping through western Canada en route to a fandom friends' gathering, and then road-tripping home by way of Washington and assorted bits of the northwestern US, because why not.

Then I will do a bit more AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, and in August I start looking seriously for a new job. New housing will follow, since it's easier to rent an apartment convenient to a job location than to find a job convenient to an apartment location.

5. I have been sorting through boxes and bins of stuff that I have not touched for literal decades, and holy shit I have been clogging my apartment and my life up with so much nonsense. It will be good to start over on a cleaner footing.
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FYI, am still in Minnesota, on Star Island in Cass Lake. Vacation is wonderful and I am enjoying it greatly, despite the minor inconvenience of our internet service still being borked so I am reduced to using my phone as a mobile hotspot. (Dad was able to get through to CenturyLink yesterday, and they restored our phone service but not our internet. Apparently the internet restoration can't be done until Tuesday, and will also require a new modem which Dad asked them to send to Aunt Jan in Virginia since she will be the next person in the cabin after we leave on Sunday afternoon.)

We've done some useful chores around the cabin, solved one simple puzzle, and are working on a second puzzle that is both NOT rectangular and is actively hostile to humans trying to engage with it. *wry* But we will triumph nonetheless!

Minor annoyance: I got my period this morning. I didn't expect it until next week, so I hadn't brought any supplies aside from the three pads I always keep in my tote bag. Fortunately Dad had a couple things he also wanted to buy in town, so we made a brief shopping run around noon and now I have both pads and tampons. (I already had ibuprofen. I always bring ibuprofen when I travel, for various and sundry reasons.)
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My flights on Monday afternoon/evening went smoothly, and I arrived in MSP around 8:25pm. I spent the night at Nick's house (he is doing better, and is now working to get an appointment with Mayo Clinic for a specialized type of inner ear scan), as did Mom and Dad -- I slept on Nick's living room sofa, which is not really a sofa-bed but it's just long enough (and I am short enough) that it works as a bed in a pinch.

This morning Dad and I did a quick walkthrough of his and Mom's new house (a nice townhouse/duplex thing in suburb of St. Paul) and then drove up to Cass Lake. The drive took longer than planned, due to interminable road work (something something shoulders/medians) on north I-94, but we made it safely to the marina and the boat trip to the island was dead easy -- the water was literally mirror-smooth most of the way.

We currently have no functional internet, so I am using my phone as a mobile hotspot. It's all right for text-based sites, but it's utter shit for anything that involves images, let alone gifs and videos. Alas! Hopefully we can get in touch with Centurylink to fix the wifi soon.

Hmm, what else...

Our main task is to move the shore station outward along the dock (it's a very minimal dock this year, just four sections extending outward and no crosspiece or L-turn, due partly to unusually high water and partly to our dock guy having trouble finding staff) and then get it settled under the sand instead of sitting on top. Dad's plan is to hook it onto the back of our boat and slowly drag it along, while I walk beside/behind and keep it from bashing into the dock. We shall see if that works in practice.

We also need to clear some large fallen branches, lay the old boards around the edge of the cabin (for walkways in rainy weather), and assorted other cabin-opening tasks that got short-circuited when Nick had his crisis and my family had to book it back down to the Twin Cities last week.

Dad has a virtual Finance Committee meeting in about 10 minutes, and after that I think we'll tackle dinner.
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I have been kind of flirting with burnout for the past couple weeks -- normally the end of tax season restores some of my free time, but at the rental office we are running four weeks ahead of last year, and last year was the fastest we'd rented in, like, twenty years, so. It's been hectic, though presumably this does mean we'll have a slower summer.

Church has also been hectic as we approach the annual meeting, and honestly I bailed on last month's board meeting because I had about -5 spoons. (I mean, I set up the minutes template for someone else to use, but I just could not face a 2-hour meeting.)

Church has also just recently had a minor explosion due to member discussion over whether or not to approve/accept the proposed 8th Principle. Staff had to shut down a Facebook discussion group and suspend all emails via the Breeze system to stop people from yelling at each other and spamming the entire congregation with manifestos. It is a mess. :(

Also this morning there was a widespread power outage over sections of Ithaca that included several of the rental company's buildings. One of those buildings is where my office is located. So that was fun. Given that I couldn't do any useful work in the office, I went down to the Commons where I staged a vacant apartment, took photos, shot a video tour, and then packed all my staging materials back into storage. By the time I was done with that, NYSEG had restored power to all of our properties, though several traffic lights were still out, creating a bunch of impromptu 4-way stops around downtown Ithaca.

I think we have finally caught up on our backlog of leases, and I was finally able to print my move-out forms -- this requires creating a specific spreadsheet and then executing a mail merge. I could probably copypaste the spreadsheet together in about 10 minutes, but I do it slowly and by hand so I can check each apartment as I go. This is our final point to catch errors like date overlaps and other glitches, so that focused review is important.

Anyway, I have my spreadsheet, I have my move-out sheets, and I have my security deposit return address forms. Tomorrow I will take the spreadsheet and create personalized labels for key return envelopes. Then I get to put the labels on the envelopes and assemble the packets (one move-out sheet, one return address form, one key envelope). Hopefully I'll be able to distribute the first round on Saturday, after which I will shove the remainder at Mr. Geniality to distribute on Monday.

This is a lot of tedious nonsense, but it reduces holdovers and improves key return immensely, so it's worth the bother. (Also, it's good to catch date glitches NOW instead of, say, in August when someone shows up to move in on the first day of their lease but the current tenant's lease doesn't end for another week. *headdesk* We fixed that, btw. It's much easier to fix in May before anyone's nailed down their travel plans.)

Tomorrow I also get to poke various people for various missing forms, waving the stick of "You cannot pick up your keys and move in until we receive this!" over their heads. *sigh* We are very clear and up-front about what forms are part of our lease, and what information is legally required for various purposes. And yet, some people always forget one piece or another until we remind them multiple times.

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In happier news, today my parents bought a house in Minnesota! It's a two-level townhouse in a suburb of the Twin Cities, and it looks very nice despite a bit of silly buggers with the ceilings and roof line. God willing and the creek don't rise, they will close on June 6, which happens to be the same day I will arrive in Minnesota for my summer vacation -- I should therefore be able to see it in person before we drive up to the lake. :)

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I refuse to talk about national or international developments of any type on the grounds that I am avoiding all news to save what's left of my mental health. :(
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Nick and I left the island today and are now at his house in the Twin Cities. We left at 4pm, had dinner at The 502 (the restaurant attached to Chase on the Lake in Walker), and then continued south while Mom and Dad returned to the island for one more day.

I have checked in for my flight tomorrow, which involved some annoying faffing around with the FlyDelta app since Nick doesn't have a printer and I therefore needed an electronic version of my boarding pass.

Tomorrow I will do... I dunno, something or other for dinner in NJ. Thursday morning and afternoon are wide open, after which wedding stuff commences. Thursday evening is bachelorette party, Friday afternoon is mani-pedi appointment, Friday evening is wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner, Saturday morning is hair styling appointment, Saturday afternoon is wedding, and Saturday evening is reception.

Then I drive back to Ithaca on Sunday, probably leaving around 3pm because heck if I'm getting up early after all that.

And now if you'll excuse me, I need to go trim a cracked toenail. :(
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Day three of vacation: very satisfactory. :)

I got up at 9:30am instead of 11:30am, made myself a nice breakfast (scrambled eggs, English muffins, a clementine, tea), and then spent the day mostly reading (in the cabin and down on the dock), working desultorily on a puzzle, and doing some dinner prep and cleanup.

I also took a two-hour afternoon nap, which was lovely. I intend to pay down a significant portion of my chronic sleep debt by the time I leave the island.

Tomorrow should be cooler, and Mom and I plan to go on a hike -- possibly all the way around Windigo, possibly in the morning. Other than that, my schedule is wide open.

Hmm.

In reading news, yesterday I finished Harrow the Ninth, which is indeed a head trip. But in a good way! My one quibble is that the narrative voice which is eventually revealed to be Expandspoilers ) doesn't have quite the right word choices before the reveal, though there are some hints. Anyway, I am now desperately curious for the third book.

I have started A Memory Called Empire by Arkady Martine (who I was interested to learn is married to Vivian Shaw (who I somewhat "internet knew" from Homestuck fandom) -- I am always a bit surprised to be within six degrees of contact, however loose, to people whose books I read), and while I haven't gotten far enough to have much of an opinion, I can definitely say I'm not bored. :)

In nonfiction realms, I am working through Medieval Maritime Warfare by Charles D. Stanton, Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error by Kathryn Schulz, In the Interim: Strategies for Interim Ministers and Congregations (2nd edition), and An Imperial Possession: Britain in the Roman Empire by David Mattingly. I tend to have several books on the go at any time, and switch between them based on my mood for any given day or hour.

In writing news, I opened the file for "Guardian" chapter 18 and skimmed through the parts I'd previously written, but did not get any farther than that.

I am also slowly continuing to crosspost my Three Sentence Ficathon fills to AO3, which feels nice and productive. *wry*

And now I think I may go to bed, so as to continue paying down my sleep debt and be in good shape for a hike tomorrow. :)
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It turns out that my family changed the plan and then I think my mom and my brother both assumed the other had told me of the new itinerary, when in fact I had not been informed at all.

In summary, rather than Nick meeting me at the airport and me spending an afternoon and night in Minneapolis, Mom met me at the airport and we drove straight up to the lake. Nick will arrive on Saturday.

I am not complaining! Extra lake time is a good thing! But it was a little confusing, you know? *wry*

What I did yesterday was mostly snooze in the car en route to the airport, get a bit lost trying to find my way through the correct security checkpoint (Newark Airport currently suffers from highly inadequate signage), snooze and read on the plan, and chat and listen to a podcast en route to Cass Lake, and have really delicious homemade BLTs for dinner.

Then I slept about thirteen hours because I NEEDED SLEEP.

Today I have: read, forwarded work email to Mr. Geniality, sat on the dock to read some more, overheard part of an antiracism Zoom event Mom is attending, and read a bit more.

Tomorrow I may venture a hike. This evening, our plan is to tackle the 1000-piece Monet garden painting puzzle I brought. We got the edge put together last night (I had saved all the edge pieces in a separate bag, because that was the one part I managed to finish at home before life (and my lack of adequate table space) interfered), but the rest will be fiendishly difficult because Impressionist painting lacks the clear edges and shapes that one tends to rely upon when reconstructing a picture.

Tomorrow I may also venture some writing. I am hoping to get somewhere on a couple stories this week, since I won't have my job always in my face and I have also begged off from a bunch of church stuff for the very good reason that I am ON VACATION, dammit. I have already missed a Zoom meeting this evening and I feel no guilt whatsoever.

Vacation is nice that way. :)
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I think I mentioned this a while back, but anyway, I have an actual vacation this year! \o/

It's a little weird, logistically, for two reasons. First, because of what Covid-19 has done to the airline industry, Delta chopped their daily flight schedule to and from Ithaca. That meant I would have either had to take an extra day off work or effectively lose a day of vacation due to weird flight schedules, neither of which is a great option.

Second, because I am tacking my friend Susan's wedding and related Events on to the end of my vacation.

So it wound up making more sense for me to drive to NJ Monday evening after work, fly from Newark to the Twin Cities, and then fly back for three days of wedding, etc., in NJ.

I also have a bunch more stuff to pack than usual, though obviously I will be leaving all the wedding-related clothes and supplies in my parents' house while I'm in Minnesota.

Relatedly, I am trying to get through a number of Tasks before I depart. Thus far, I have stopped my mail, set up a bunch of instructions for my coworkers to guide them through stuff I usually handle, paid my rent, paid my health insurance bill, pulled together some snacks, and made my various packing lists. I am also working to use up perishables so my fridge won't be a horrorshow when I return home.

Tomorrow I need to buttonhole one of my neighbors and ask them to water my plants while I'm gone, do laundry, and go vote early for my local primary election, as well as, you know, actually pulling down my suitcase and packing 90% of my stuff.
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Things done today:

1. I received my absentee ballot for the Democratic primaries (state/local and presidential). I don't remember if I mentioned here, but a few weeks back I got an absentee ballot application form in the mail, with the election in question pre-marked and a notice of what "reason" to give if I wanted to vote by mail because of Covid 19 restrictions. I am not sure if that was a statewide program or something Tompkins County decided unilaterally. Anyway, I thought it was an excellent move so I mailed back the application the following day.

I have now filled out my actual ballot (technically two ballots, since the state/local and the national elections were originally scheduled for different days -- yes, that is ridiculous and inefficient; many people have already made that point at length) and will mail it back tomorrow. Probably I will drop it into an actual mailbox outside the downtown post office outpost, for security, rather than clipping it to my front porch mailbox on Monday morning.

Today's other significant piece of mail was the proposed budget from the Ithaca City School District, and I should presumably receive an absentee ballot from ICSD within the coming week. It looks as reasonable as any budget can be under the circumstances.

2. I also received, via email this time, the proposed 2020-21 budget for my congregation. The Board of Trustees need to approve it by Monday night -- this will be an email vote that we will then confirm at our regular monthly Zoom meeting. Again, it looks as reasonable as any budget can be under the circumstances. There is only one part I'm confused about, but we're having a congregational discussion via Zoom around noon tomorrow, so I'll try to ask our treasurer about it then. (We're using the congregational discussion to test-run out electronic voting system. Here's hoping everything works out!)

3. Nick sent an update about the situation in the Twin Cities. The fires and looting are still well south of his new house and also away from his apartment, so he should be safe, but he's a little worried about driving back and forth as he finishes his move and also about reports of white supremacists coming to town and trying to agitate both sides into violence. I am so sorry for everyone in Minnesota right now. :(

4. Walked into town partly for general exercise and fresh air, but also to check if my barber shop was open now that Phase 2 of the great Un-Pausening has started in the Southern Tier. I wasn't terribly hopeful, since I'd tried calling earlier and got a "this phone number is not currently in service" message -- never a good sign -- and indeed, they were closed. But! I checked their Facebook page this evening and it looks like they plan to reopen (with restrictions) on Tuesday. So I will give them a call on Tuesday morning to see if my hair guy is in, and hopefully he will be able to fix up the wonky trim I gave myself to keep my hair out of my eyes and off the back of my neck.

5. Took a post-lunch nap. It was delicious. :)

6. Roasted asparagus for dinner. That was also delicious. :) I think out-of-season asparagus is actually better for roasting, since the stems tend to be thicker and hold up better in the oven. Skinny asparagus is really better steamed, but I don't have the kitchen equipment to do that properly.

7. Took kitchen compost to the communal backyard bin.

8. While I was out there, spent ~5 minutes doing some desultory weeding. My new thought is that if I spend ~5 minutes per day in the garden, it will never be enough time to register to my brain as "WORK UGH WHAT IS THIS NO" and yet I will still stay mostly on top of the weeds. We shall see how this plan holds up when exposed to reality.

9. Baked brownies for dessert. Continuing the theme, they are delicious. :)

And now I will attempt some writing before heading to bed for more delicious sleep.
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On my way home!

Which in practice means I'm sitting in an airport for the next hour-plus until my plane starts boarding, but as Nick said, better through security and bored than delayed and stressed. *wry*

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